- Years in practice
- 25
- Credentials
- LCSW
- Licensed in
- New York
- Languages
- English
- Focus
- Stress, Anxiety
- Focus
- Relationship issues
- Focus
- Family conflicts
About John
John Shafer, LCSW, brings 25 years of social work experience to parents and individuals seeking practical help. He focuses on clear, workable steps rather than jargon. His approach is straightforward and centered on the person sitting across from him.
He trained at Syracuse University and has worked in rural community mental health, school-based programs, and urban and suburban settings. Those roles exposed him to many life stages and a wide range of social and economic backgrounds.
Background and approach
That variety shaped his practical outlook and ability to adapt to different life situations. In sessions he draws on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and Dialectical Behavior Therapy alongside client-centered and mindfulness ideas. He uses those methods to help people manage stress, anxiety, depression, sleep problems, addiction concerns, and parenting challenges.
The work is grounded and focused on skills and choices people can use between sessions. He has experience offering individual, group, and couple formats, and he emphasizes collaboration in planning next steps. His background includes helping people with trauma, grief, intimacy issues, self-esteem, career stress, ADHD, and compassion fatigue.
He aims to match practical strategies to each person’s daily life. John practices in New York and holds the Licensed Clinical Social Worker credential, LCSW. He offers straightforward conversation, concrete coping tools, and a steady commitment to helping people find manageable ways to move forward.
What John works with
Everything John lists, in the therapist's own terms. Parenting is the reason this directory exists; the rest shows what else John helps people with.
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
- Trauma and abuse
- Depression
- Addictions
- LGBT
- Grief
- Intimacy-related issues
- Sleeping disorders
- Parenting issues
- Anger management
- Self esteem
- Career difficulties
- Bipolar disorder
- Coping with life changes
- Coaching
- Compassion fatigue
- ADHD
- Abandonment
- Adoption and foster care
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Avoidant personality
- Blended family issues
- Cancer
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Co-morbidity
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Fertility issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Immigration issues
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intellectual disability
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Paranoia
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Postpartum depression
- Post-traumatic stress
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Somatization
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
Approaches John lists
- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
- Client-Centered Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
- Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
- Existential Therapy
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Motivational Interviewing
- Narrative Therapy
- Solution-Focused Therapy
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
Listing an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each therapist names and does not check training records.
How therapeutic approaches translate to online care
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy helps people clarify their values and take small, actionable steps toward them despite difficult thoughts or feelings. It is useful for stress, anxiety, parenting strain, and life transitions. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy looks at the links between thoughts, emotions, and behaviors and teaches concrete skills to change unhelpful patterns. That approach often helps with anxiety, depression, sleep problems, and coping strategies. Client-Centered Therapy emphasizes listening and working at the client’s pace to build trust and identify personal goals; it supports people trying to make sense of difficult experiences and figure out their next steps.Finding the right fit is a collaborative process. The therapist will talk with each person about their goals, preferences, and day-to-day realities and then recommend approaches or mix methods accordingly. Clients are invited to give feedback so the work can be adjusted over time.
Online formats help make that collaboration easier to fit into busy lives. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation and visual cues. Phone sessions can be a good option when bandwidth is limited or a shorter check-in is needed. Live chat and text-based messaging let people send brief updates, practice skills between sessions, and check in without scheduling a full call. These options offer flexibility for parents and working people who need adaptable ways to engage in therapy.
Questions people ask about John
What concerns does this therapist help with?
He helps people address stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, grief, addictions, sleeping issues, and parenting concerns among many other challenges.
What is his general therapy style?
His style is collaborative and practical. He focuses on skills and choices that people can try between sessions and adapts methods to fit each person's needs.
How much experience does he have?
He has 25 years of experience working in community mental health, school-based settings, and urban and suburban practices.
What credentials and location are listed?
He is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, based in New York.
Which languages are offered and are international clients accepted?
Sessions are offered in English. International clients are not currently accepted.
What session formats are available?
He provides video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to suit different schedules and needs.
How is cost handled for sessions?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
What should someone do to get started?
Begin by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.
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