- Years in practice
- 23
- Credentials
- LCMHC
- Licensed in
- North Carolina
- Languages
- English
- Focus
- Stress, Anxiety
- Focus
- Family conflicts
- Focus
- Trauma and abuse
About Greg
Greg Hilgert is a licensed clinical mental health counselor with 23 years of experience who helps people facing stress, anxiety, relationship strain, parenting challenges, trauma, and mood concerns. He focuses on practical steps that make daily life feel more manageable. Greg uses straightforward language so busy parents can follow along and take action between sessions.
He prefers an individualized, client-centered style. That means he builds treatment around each person's goals and situation rather than using a one-size-fits-all plan.
Background and approach
Sessions often include problem-solving, coping skills, and ways to shift unhelpful thinking patterns. Greg draws from cognitive behavioral techniques to help people notice and change thoughts and behaviors that keep problems going. He also uses mindfulness strategies to support emotional regulation and EMDR for trauma-related distress when appropriate.
Motivational interviewing can help people increase readiness for change around substance use or other difficult habits. In practice, he focuses on clear goals. He helps parents manage stress, improve communication, handle grief or loss, address intimacy concerns, and cope with life transitions.
He also works with people dealing with addictions, ADHD, anger, and compassion fatigue. Greg holds the LCMHC credential - Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor - and is based in North Carolina. Sessions are offered in English and delivered through video, phone, live chat, or text messaging when that format fits the person's needs.
What Greg works with
Everything Greg lists, in the therapist's own terms. Parenting is the reason this directory exists; the rest shows what else Greg helps people with.
- Stress, Anxiety
- Family conflicts
- Trauma and abuse
- Self esteem
- Depression
- Addictions
- Relationship issues
- Grief
- Intimacy-related issues
- Sleeping disorders
- Parenting issues
- Anger management
- Bipolar disorder
- Coping with life changes
- Compassion fatigue
- ADHD
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dissociation
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Infidelity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Men's issues
- Mood disorders
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Personality disorders
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Post-traumatic stress
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
Approaches Greg lists
- Client-Centered Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
- Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Motivational Interviewing
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
Listing an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each therapist names and does not check training records.
Therapeutic approaches and online support
Client-centered therapy focuses on the person's own goals and experience, with the therapist offering empathy and guidance while following the client's lead. This approach helps people who need a say in how their work proceeds and who want support that matches their priorities.Cognitive behavioral therapy, or CBT, helps people identify thoughts and behaviors that create problems and then practice new, more effective responses. It is often used for anxiety, depression, parenting stress, and trouble sleeping because it gives clear skills to use between sessions.
Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing, EMDR, is a trauma-focused method that can reduce the intensity of distressing memories and related symptoms when trauma is a key concern.
Finding the right approach is part of the work. Greg will collaborate with each person to decide which methods best match their needs, goals, and preferences. He adapts techniques over time so the plan stays useful and relevant.
Online therapy offers flexible ways to work together. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation when a longer session or visual cues are helpful. Phone sessions require less bandwidth and can be easier to fit into short breaks. Live chat and text-based messaging suit brief check-ins, skill practice, or for people who prefer typing. These options help make therapy more convenient for parents and busy people.
Questions people ask about Greg
What concerns does Greg commonly address?
He works with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, parenting challenges, relationship and intimacy issues, addictions, ADHD, grief, and related concerns.
How would you describe his therapeutic style?
He uses a client-centered, collaborative style that focuses on practical steps. Sessions emphasize goal setting, skill building, and problem solving.
What experience does he bring to therapy?
Greg has 23 years of clinical experience across varied settings and with a wide range of presenting problems.
What are his credentials and where is he located?
He holds the LCMHC credential, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, and practices from North Carolina.
Which languages are supported and are international clients accepted?
Sessions are offered in English. International clients are not currently accepted.
In what formats are sessions offered?
Therapy is available by video call, phone session, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different schedules and preferences.
How does payment work and what does it cost?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
What are the first steps to begin working with him?
Use the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, then schedule a session based on the therapist's availability.
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