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Nicholas Sanfilipo, LPCC

Based in New Mexico Online sessions

Helping parents navigate stress and relationships

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Years in practice
27
Credentials
LPCC
Licensed in
New Mexico
Languages
English
Focus
Stress, Anxiety
Focus
Parenting issues
Focus
Anger management
About

About Nicholas

Nicholas Sanfilipo is a licensed professional counselor (LPCC) practicing in New Mexico. He focuses on concerns such as stress, anxiety, parenting challenges, anger, and depression. He approaches work with people who are coping with life changes, grief, trauma and abuse, and issues around intimacy and self esteem.

Nicholas centers the conversation on each person's strengths and knowledge of their own life. He talks plainly and listens first to understand what matters most to the client.

Background and approach

Sessions tend to be practical and goal oriented, with space to process feelings and build new skills. His style draws on client-centered methods and cognitive behavioral techniques to identify unhelpful patterns and try new behaviors. Mindfulness practices are used to help calm the body and refocus attention when stress or anxiety spikes.

Solution-focused ideas help set short-term goals and measure progress. With 27 years of experience, Nicholas offers a steady presence for people facing parenting stress, relationship strain, caregiver burden, or isolation. He also addresses family of origin issues, communication problems, guilt, shame, and social anxiety.

Sessions are offered in English and take place through video calls, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging. The subscription model for sessions can be canceled at any time and scheduling is arranged after completing a brief matching questionnaire.

Focus areas and approaches

What Nicholas works with

Everything Nicholas lists, in the therapist's own terms. Parenting is the reason this directory exists; the rest shows what else Nicholas helps people with.

Approaches Nicholas lists

Listing an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each therapist names and does not check training records.

Online support

Approaches that translate to online care

Client-centered therapy emphasizes understanding each person's perspective and building on their strengths. In practice this looks like the therapist listening closely, reflecting what is said, and helping people set their own goals; it is useful for parenting stress, relationship strain, and identity concerns.

Cognitive behavioral therapy, or CBT, focuses on spotting unhelpful thoughts and testing new behaviors. Short exercises and thought records help reduce anxiety and depressive patterns and can be practiced between sessions for steady progress.

Mindfulness therapy teaches simple attention and breathing practices to calm stress and improve focus. These short exercises can be used when anxiety rises or when someone needs a quick reset during a busy day.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Nicholas will collaborate with each person to choose methods that fit their goals, pace, and preferences. He adjusts techniques over time based on what helps most.

Online formats offer practical benefits. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation and screen-sharing of worksheets. Phone sessions need less bandwidth and can fit a short break at work. Live chat or text-based messaging make it easier to check in between appointments or when writing feels clearer. These options provide flexibility to match therapy to a client's life and schedule.
Questions

Questions people ask about Nicholas

What concerns does Nicholas commonly help with?

He works with stress, anxiety, parenting challenges, anger, depression, and related issues such as grief, intimacy concerns, and self esteem.

How would you describe his therapeutic style?

He uses a strengths-based, client-centered approach that listens first and sets practical goals. Sessions mix listening, skill practice, and collaborative problem solving.

What is his professional background?

He has 27 years of professional experience supporting people facing a range of life and relationship stresses.

Where is he licensed and practicing?

He holds the LPCC credential and practices in New Mexico.

In which languages are sessions offered?

Sessions are offered in English.

What session formats are available for online work?

Sessions can be conducted via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different needs and schedules.

How are sessions paid for and what does it cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

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