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Deana Porter, LMFT

Based in California Online sessions

Compassionate therapist for relationship and parenting concerns

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Years in practice
29
Credentials
LMFT
Licensed in
California
Languages
English
Focus
Relationship issues
Focus
Family conflicts
Focus
Trauma and abuse
About

About Deana

Deana Porter is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) based in California with 29 years of experience. She focuses on practical support for people dealing with relationship struggles, parenting concerns, trauma and intimacy issues. Her style is straightforward and compassionate, aimed at helping people feel understood and find workable steps forward.

Deana often combines cognitive behavioral tools and skills from dialectical behavior therapy to help clients manage strong emotions and shift unhelpful patterns.

Background and approach

She also draws on the Gottman Method when addressing communication and connection in relationships, and uses Internal Family Systems ideas to help people understand different parts of themselves. These approaches are used to create simple, doable plans rather than abstract theories. Common concerns she addresses include anxiety, depression, grief, stress, and struggles with self-esteem or motivation.

She also supports people facing parenting stress, blended family challenges, adoption and foster care issues, caregiving strain, and changes after separation or divorce. Deana works to make goals concrete so progress can be tracked over time. Her sessions aim to be collaborative.

She listens first, then helps identify a few clear steps a client can try between sessions. That might include new communication habits, emotion regulation skills, or gentle experiments to test different choices. People who come to Deana often want practical change and steadier day-to-day functioning.

She meets that need with decades of experience and a calm, matter-of-fact approach that emphasizes respect and sensitivity.

Focus areas and approaches

What Deana works with

Everything Deana lists, in the therapist's own terms. Parenting is the reason this directory exists; the rest shows what else Deana helps people with.

Approaches Deana lists

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Online support

How evidence-based approaches translate to online care

Deana commonly uses cognitive behavioral therapy and dialectical behavior therapy in her work. CBT focuses on identifying thoughts and behaviors that keep problems going and practicing small changes that produce better feelings and outcomes. DBT adds concrete emotion regulation skills and techniques for handling intense feelings and relationship conflicts.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. Deana will listen to your goals and try methods that fit your situation, then adjust as you learn what helps. She aims to work together to find tools that match your needs and preferences rather than imposing a single method.

Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. Video calls work well for deeper conversations and visual cues. Phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is limited or you want a shorter check-in. Live chat and messaging let you share thoughts between sessions and keep momentum while juggling work or family responsibilities.
Questions

Questions people ask about Deana

What issues does Deana commonly address?

She helps with relationship problems, parenting concerns, trauma and intimacy issues, as well as anxiety, depression, grief, stress, self-esteem, sleep and eating difficulties.

What is her therapy style and approach?

Deana uses practical, skills-based approaches such as cognitive behavioral techniques and dialectical behavior strategies alongside Gottman and Internal Family Systems ideas. Sessions focus on clear steps and emotion management.

How much experience does she have?

She has 29 years of professional experience working with people on relationship and personal concerns.

What are her credentials and where is she located?

She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist - LMFT - licensed in California and practices from that state.

Which languages are offered for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

What session formats are available?

Deana offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different schedules and needs.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions are provided through a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

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