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Robert Aerts, LMFT

Based in California Online sessions

Practical, direct therapy for everyday challenges

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Years in practice
8
Credentials
LMFT
Licensed in
California
Languages
English
Focus
Stress, Anxiety
Focus
LGBT
Focus
Parenting issues
About

About Robert

Robert Aerts is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) who brings practical, straightforward care to people feeling overwhelmed by stress, anxiety, depression, or big life changes. He introduces simple tools and clear conversation so clients can focus on the next step rather than getting stuck in worry.

He has eight years of clinical experience and more than three decades working in human services. That background shaped his plainspoken style and his ability to adapt the work to each person’s situation.

Background and approach

He is LGBTQ friendly and mindful of stigma that can come with being LGBTQ. Therapy sessions are focused and collaborative. He often uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help people notice unhelpful thinking and try new behaviors.

He listens closely to what matters most and shapes the work around those goals. When an issue is outside his scope, he will say so and suggest other resources that might fit better. He offers individual therapy through a few online formats, which lets people connect in ways that fit their schedule.

People turn to him for help with parenting concerns, relationship strain, grief, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, anger, ADHD, low self-esteem, and coping with life transitions. His goal is to help clients leave sessions with a clear idea of one or two next steps they can actually try.

Focus areas and approaches

What Robert works with

Everything Robert lists, in the therapist's own terms. Parenting is the reason this directory exists; the rest shows what else Robert helps people with.

Approaches Robert lists

Listing an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each therapist names and does not check training records.

Online support

Therapeutic approaches and online sessions that fit your life

Robert often uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, which focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and changing the behaviors that keep problems going. CBT is useful for anxiety, depression, stress, and managing symptoms like those seen with ADHD.

Narrative Therapy is another approach he draws on; it helps people separate themselves from the problems they face by re-framing stories and noticing strengths. This can be helpful for grief, identity questions, and feeling stuck by past experiences.

Solution-Focused Therapy concentrates on what is already working and builds quick, practical steps toward client goals. It is a good fit when people want short-term, goal-oriented work and clear actions between sessions.

Finding the right approach is part of the work together. He will talk with each person about goals, preferences, and what has or hasn’t helped before, then suggest which methods to try. That decision is collaborative and can change as needs evolve.

Online sessions are offered by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to make therapy flexible. Video works well for in-depth conversation, phone can be easier when bandwidth is limited, and chat or messaging lets people check in quickly or keep regular contact between appointments. These options help fit therapy into busy schedules and different routines.
Questions

Questions people ask about Robert

What concerns does he help with?

He supports people dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, trauma and abuse, anger, low self-esteem, ADHD, intimacy-related issues, relationship strain, and coping with life changes. Parenting is also listed as a focus area.

What is his general therapy style?

He uses a practical, straightforward style and keeps communication open and honest. Sessions emphasize clear goals and small, concrete steps to try between meetings.

What experience does he bring?

He has eight years of experience in clinical mental health work and over 30 years in human services, which informs a grounded, adaptable approach to care.

What are his credentials and where is he located?

He is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, listed as CA LMFT, and is based in California.

Which languages are used in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

What session formats are available?

He offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different preferences and schedules.

How does payment work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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